<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[www.bondibilala.com]]></title><description><![CDATA[www.bondibilala.com]]></description><link>https://bondibilala.wixsite.com/site/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2026 07:01:19 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://bondibilala.wixsite.com/site/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[The Little Foxes]]></title><description><![CDATA[The other day a colleague asked me what advice I would give on marriage and pre-marital counselling, considering he was about to take the...]]></description><link>https://bondibilala.wixsite.com/site/post/the-little-foxes</link><guid isPermaLink="false">681f564ee0791c3813dcc844</guid><pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2025 15:05:28 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Bondi Bilala</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Unhinged Thoughts on a Tuesday Afternoon]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I was younger, probably 20/21, I had a married cousin who said she couldn't go to her father's house when she's pregnant because of...]]></description><link>https://bondibilala.wixsite.com/site/post/unhinged-thoughts-on-a-tuesday-afternoon</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6717b451f430ed1c6fc56ed0</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 Oct 2024 14:38:10 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Bondi Bilala</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Where Did We Go Wrong As A Church?]]></title><description><![CDATA[It's not going to church that counts, it's having a relationship with God There's too much hypocrisy in the church Ah church, it's just a...]]></description><link>https://bondibilala.wixsite.com/site/post/where-did-we-go-wrong-as-a-church</link><guid isPermaLink="false">631516785cd0ad871c94053d</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Oct 2022 20:52:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/0c95b6_abaa7f1842a24320a9cd13fbc56a1818~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_640,h_439,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Bondi Bilala</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Thin Line Between Love &#38; Hate]]></title><description><![CDATA[The first time I came across this phrase, I was definitely under 10 and it just made for a good movie starring the ever graceful Lynn...]]></description><link>https://bondibilala.wixsite.com/site/post/a-thin-line-between-love-hate</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6320ece008580759a1daf756</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2022 21:09:45 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Bondi Bilala</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[It's Giving Shackles]]></title><description><![CDATA[I serve in the Children’s church, specifically with the 6 &#38; 7 years class, which constantly reaffirms my position on not wanting kids....]]></description><link>https://bondibilala.wixsite.com/site/post/it-s-giving-shackles</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62e05835803bccea402d4e8a</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2022 20:30:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/0c95b6_647fc074930a4e25b8ab546efa34e9d4~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_612,h_408,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Bondi Bilala</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Creating Joy]]></title><description><![CDATA[I remember the first time I learned there was a difference between joy and happiness, it was thanks to "I Smile" by Kirk Franklin, where...]]></description><link>https://bondibilala.wixsite.com/site/post/creating-joy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62d53efca4f01105c1799f02</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2022 21:43:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/0c95b6_6580de1b4ccb4201a2f30431c3c4706e~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Bondi Bilala</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Goodbye TV]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the past month, I've said goodbye to two TV shows that managed to keep my attention span; This is Us and Grace &#38; Frankie and now I...]]></description><link>https://bondibilala.wixsite.com/site/post/goodbye-tv</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62b9a2516966010521801156</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 12:44:37 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Bondi Bilala</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Within and Without]]></title><description><![CDATA[I've always prided myself on a routine and do not like to be idle, so I tend to fill up my life with activities. 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